This Week’s Yourology With Dr. Malik:
Is Overactive Bladder Ruining Sex?!
Welcome to Yourology with Dr. Malik – your weekly prescription for the latest medical updates, valuable insights, and freshest highlights straight from the frontlines of medicine!
❓ Circumcision healing: bumps and erections update.
💡 Women’s low libido: causes and solutions.
MEN’S YOUROLOGY
Erectile Dysfunction Isn’t Just About Sex — It May Be an Early Warning Sign
This study followed more than 1,900 men over several years and found that ED was not just a quality-of-life issue — it was a powerful predictor of future cardiovascular events. Even after adjusting for age, smoking, diabetes, blood pressure, and cholesterol, men with ED had a significantly higher risk of heart attack, stroke, and cardiac death. In fact, ED independently increased cardiovascular risk to a level comparable to traditional risk factors.
The most striking finding? ED often appeared before any major cardiac event, making it a potential early warning sign. This supports the idea that smaller penile arteries may show vascular damage sooner than larger coronary arteries.
Clinically, this means ED should trigger a deeper heart evaluation — not just a prescription. The study reinforces that ED is a vascular condition at its core, so if we ignore ED, we may be missing the first visible sign of silent heart disease.
WOMEN’S YOUROLOGY
Could overactive bladder (OAB) be quietly affecting a woman’s sexual health more than we realize?
This study takes a deep look at the intersection between female sexual function and OAB, a condition marked by urgency, frequency, and sometimes leakage. Across the studies reviewed, women with OAB consistently reported higher rates of sexual dysfunction compared to women without bladder symptoms. Common concerns included lower desire, difficulty with arousal, pain during intercourse, and fear of leakage during sex. In several cohorts, the severity of bladder symptoms directly matched the degree of sexual distress.
One of the most meaningful findings was that effective OAB treatment—particularly antimuscarinic medications and β3-agonists—was associated with measurable improvement in sexual function scores. Women whose urgency and leakage improved were also more likely to report better desire, lubrication, and satisfaction. In other words, treating the bladder condition itself appeared to ease sexual difficulties.
This reinforces something important: OAB is not just a “bathroom issue.” It can affect confidence, intimacy, and quality of life. The study encourages clinicians to screen for sexual concerns when managing OAB—and reminds patients that improvement is possible when the root cause is addressed.
This week, someone asked me, “I really need your opinion on this....... I am a 64-year-old male. And I had a circumcision done about 14 weeks ago. My problem is that the incision line is still a bit raised and bumpy from the stitches. Should I be concerned yet? And I'm not getting a full erection for some reason........ Please help me..........”. Fourteen weeks after circumcision, it’s common for the incision line to still look a bit raised or bumpy, as healing can take several months and the tissue may take time to fully smooth out. As for erections, some men experience temporary changes in sensitivity or function after circumcision, but most improve with time. Still, if things aren’t getting better or if you're worried, it’s best to check in with your urologist for a proper exam and peace of mind.
I love hearing from you, so if there’s a question you’ve been wanting to ask, just let me know. Who knows? Your question might be the one I dive into next!
WHAT I’VE BEEN UP TO LATELY
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HIGHLIGHTS FROM MY CHANNEL
I tackled a truly fascinating topic—whether sex dolls and AI companions are helping us connect or potentially creating bigger problems in our relationships. "I do hope that we continue to find value in real human beings and connection, because no one can obviate that need for a real person, for touch, for connection."
Here are some quick takeaways:
More people are trying AI companions and digital partners than you might think—and not just for sex.
Current research doesn’t show major psychological differences in doll users—but there are concerns about objectification.
Technology is moving fast, but human connections are still irreplaceable.
If you’re curious about what this means for the future of intimacy and relationships, give this episode a listen!
HIGHLIGHTS FROM MY PODCAST
I had such a great time answering your most personal questions on my latest AMA episode! So many people worry about things like orgasms, peeing habits, or dealing with itch. I always say “There’s no right or wrong when it comes to sex. All people are unique and different, right?”
Here are some helpful takeaways:
Most women take 12–14 minutes to orgasm, and clitoral stimulation is key
Bubbles in your pee? Usually, nothing to stress about, but check with your doctor if you’re worried
Groin itch (“jock itch”) is super common—stay dry and try cotton underwear
No shame here—just real answers to real questions! So listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or here and see why people are commenting, “Good explanation 💛”.
NEW MEDIA
Feeling like your spark has fizzled? Check out my new Substack: Why Women Lose Interest in Sex: Causes of Low Libido and How to Spot Them.
In this article, I break down the real science behind women’s low sex drive—what’s happening in the brain, body, and relationships—and why understanding the cause is the first step to reclaiming confidence and intimacy.
If you’re struggling with sex - such as low desire, performance issues, anxiety, or communication, the right guidance can change everything!
For less than $1/day, The Better Sex App can give you tailored programs designed specifically for sexual health, daily micro-lessons, and an AI coach trained on my expertise to give you honest, evidence-based support whenever you need it.
As always, remember to take care of yourself because you're worth it!
Yours Truly,
Rena Malik, M.D


